Things to Expect in a Relationship Where There Is True Love
True love is the only ‘cement’ that determine and guaranty the extent of solidity and longevity of any relationship. When couples truly love and commit to each other’s happiness and welfare there is no doubt their love and relationship will be an exemplary one and would last. Listed below are some familiar factors that tell if there’s true love in a relationship or not.
When we love someone, we are willing to compromise in order to accommodate their needs or desires. But we don’t sacrifice our own self in doing this, nor should the other person require us to sacrifice our own self for their personal gain. That’s not love; that’s emotional molestation and abuse.
Just Like Fine Wine, It May Take Time to Bloom
Love and romantic relationship involves two different persons from different background and with different ways of understanding and perception about things. So expecting them to align, as very soon as they came together, without cracks and hitches may simply mean demanding so much. A loving relationship is not built in a day. The threads of love take time to weave together to form a strong bond. It is only as you and your partner share your thoughts, fears, dreams and hopes that love takes root. So trust the process and don’t rush love. It has its own time table that needs to be respected and not hurried.
Respect and Kindness
When we love, we act respectfully and kindly towards each other; we do not intentionally hurt or denigrate our partner. When we talk about them in their absence, it is with such warmth that the listeners can hear the love in our words. We do not criticize our partner behind their backs.
Being Guardians of Each Other’s Solitude
With love, we never feel lonely, even when alone. The very thought of the other person makes us feel as if we have a guardian angel with us at all times. True love makes couples in a distant relationship look as if they dwell side by side. The company is always more in the mind than what mere eyes can see.
Love Allows Us to ‘Fight’ Without Fear
Secure in our love relationship, we know we can argue and that it will not break us apart. We disagree to agree and we don’t hold grudges for too long because we don’t like to hold bad feelings towards our partner. Two couples in true love can comfortably disagree without fear of breakup even if it takes too long to settle issues and come to terms because they know too well that their emotions are far stronger than their logic.
There is Absolute Trust.
A relationship that enjoys true love has absolute trust at its center as a solid pillar. Where there is such trust, there would never be room for suspicions or for doubts for infidelity. Each feels completely safe and secure in the hands of the other even when they are not in good terms or far distance apart.