When something isn’t going right in your relationship, sometimes you just know it, even if you don’t have solid proof. When things begin to fall apart and the center could no longer hold, the signs are always visible to the blind. Once your woman is fed-up with you and possibly doesn’t want to keep with the relationship, some could be courageous enough to make it known to their guys whereas very many will only use attitude and bring it to a halt. Female infidelity signs are easier to spot than you think. Following are 8 trigger points to know she’s gradually taking her leave off your life.
1. She picks at you at every instant.
When a woman is truly in love with a man, there is this kind of emotional harshness it puts in her that makes her reacts harshly at him whenever he messes up. This is done out of deep emotion, true love and pure affection but whenever she begins to overlook those ills of the man and reacts less harshly to them, just know she is completely tired of him and possibly headed somewhere. You become so awkward, naïve, hopeless and irritating to her.
Also, if your woman is the type that hardly talks to you anyhow and suddenly, she begins to develop this unusual boldness and excessive courage in making negative confrontational advances to you at most/all times, behold all your initial ‘goods’ now become ‘bad’, know the journey is gradually coming to an end. Begin to search your mind for where you might be possibly erring. When she also begins to create high affinity to feminists within the neighborhood, at far or near distance, online and practicing what she is coaching up on you, just know your roof has started leaking and can no longer be a good shelter for her.
2. Increased request for privacy
One of the more obvious signs your woman is either fed-up with you or already cheating on you is her increased need for privacy. Is she being more secretive with her technology? People take their phones everywhere with them. It’s great for staying in contact with friends, a partner, and work. However, it can also be the best aid she’ll ever have for cheating. She can easily add a new contact under a false name, or hide dating apps from sight. This also applies to men.
Female infidelity signs include leaving the room when taking a phone call, being overly possessive of her phone, and frequently deleting history on her phone/laptop/tablet. If your partner is not open with her devices the way that she used to be, it may be because she is hiding something from you.
3. She’s not interested in sex anymore
One of the main ways couples connect emotionally is by bonding through sex. When a woman orgasms during sex her brain releases a jolt of oxytocin, which lowers barriers of trust and creates a strong bond between the two of you. This is natural science for you and the attachment is essential for strong relationships. It also lowers stress which can make partners more peaceable with one another.
When it comes to female infidelity signs, not wanting to have sex is a big one. So, when your girlfriend starts showing a lack of interest or enthusiasm in your sex life there is a chance she may be creating a bond elsewhere. This is primarily because men cheat because of sex while women cheat because of love.
4. She doesn’t do the little things anymore
The little things may actually be the healthiest part of any relationship. Maintaining the little things, such as making one another coffee in the morning, kissing goodbye before work, giving compliments, and showing appreciation are key to a long-lasting, happy relationship. Holding hands and telling your partner how much you value them on a regular basis makes both parties feel loved, needed, and never taken for granted.
It is a definite sign of trouble when your wife or girlfriend has stopped doing the little things she used to do. Even if she’s not said it yet, it is a red flag that she is unhappy in the relationship.
5. You begin to unnecessarily spend less time together
Spending good and quality time together as a couple is what helps you form a bond. Whether you’re lounging around at home together, headed out for date night, or spending time with a group of mutual friends, spending time together is an assured expectation of fun. However, one sign she’s actually getting headed for somewhere/someone else is if you are spending significantly less time together than you used to do and she’s the cause. At the very least, this is a sign she’s no longer interested in you and may be chasing after someone else.
6. She suddenly spends a lot of time at work.
Staying late at the office/shop is either a sign she’s extremely committed to her job/business or that she’s extremely committed to someone else. If staying late at work is out of the norm for her, you may take this as a sign there is a bigger problem in your relationship. Especially if her work/business seems to be taking her away for the weekends or “overnight” for work activities when it never did before.
7. She has new friends
Is your wife or girlfriend now spending an inordinate amount of time with new people? Making new friends is by no means a sign that your girlfriend is cheating or leaving you, but her behavior about them does carry scary alarm. For instance, is she spending time with new friends but doesn’t want to introduce you to them? Do these “new friends” take her out until all hours of the night in a way that is out of character? Has she frequently put off hanging out with you in order to spend time with new friends?
If you’ve been together for some time now you probably know your partner’s closest friends. If your girl has stopped spending time with her family, your family, or your mutual friends and is now itching to be a part of a new group she may be interested in someone else.
8. She becomes always busy
It is never a good sign when your wife or girlfriend won’t seem to give you the time of day. Unlike cheating men, women who cheat typically aren’t interested in stringing along two partners. Instead, they will lose interest in the one and focus all their time and attention on the other. It’s either you or someone else. If your girlfriend/wife is done with you, you may notice a sudden change in her schedule. If you find that you can no longer take her out without giving advanced notice this may be a sign she’s getting done or already done with you.
Do not needlessly waste your time with someone who doesn’t appreciate you or someone who takes your love for granted.
When it comes to this point, look more inward and search your mind, attitude and lifestyle, perhaps there are somethings you might likely have started doing, have stopped doing or are not doing well that she is reacting to and needed to be addressed. But if, however, at the end of your examination and consultation you find none of such, just let go and move on.